Dear Readers,
I have had rather a rough day, bad thing is its just beginning. I didn't go to sleep until 3am this morning, gosh and I'm tired. On top of that, I forgot to take my meds on time,needless to say i woke up with a serious migraine........can we say darkness please!!!!!! For those of you who worry... I know I'm one . My daughter Squirt is doing just fine other than getting on my nerves. With a migraine what kid doesn't get on your nerves? Anyways back to my blog......damn I don't feel good. OK well I was interested in lots of posts on facebook yesterday.So if your one of my readers tell me what you think of my point of view.For starters lets just say, what you say is your business not anyone elses unless you are talking shit.I however do not like the approach some wives are taking against other wives.....But like always everyone has their own opinion.Well since your reading my blog you getting mine.:) There was a post on facebook about one individuals husband being off and her spending time with him. First off we live a military life if you are lucky enough to get a day off.....YOU ARE LUCKY! When you do, you use it to spend with your family we all know too well that our days with our loved ones are numbered before they deploy again. That being said.....If for some reason your hubs doesn't get a day off, more than likely there is a reason behind it. I know this all too well cause my hubs believe it or not.Is no angel, we had times where we only saw him for sleep and that was it, but was lucky to see him for that. Granted I don't know the whole story but it was taken to the Sgt. and the argument was from the other side saying her husband does not get any days off....it was then passed to the husband of the individual then to the wife that she does not need to be posting about when her hubs has a day off. Its like rubbing it in to the other wife"quote hear say". I would be very pissed and I have to agree with what most of the post did. If you don't like it don't read it!!!!! That's why there is a HIDE button. All of this could have been avoided if the person wasn't so damn picky, granted I don't know the whole story but in my opinion it sounds like BULLSHIT!!!! I'm not trying to start drama or piss anyone off but if you have a problem take it to the individual NOT the army. Quite using your husbands rank for your authority!!!! When you use your husbands rank to your advantage...your playing dirty and all the cards are off the table.I can say if you did this to me I would fight fire with fire. I'm wondering what kinda world we live in that army wives cant get along with each other in the time of need? Okay enough on that subject for our second agenda today.I don't know who all my readers are so for that matter lets start simple....I was accused in hear say, that I was cheating on my hubs.But after I got all pissed off and controlling and swearing I didn't do it have figured out the whole context of it.I am for all my readers a friend someone who can express what others feel but cant express. I am telling you cause I can finally admit it to the world, I am bisexual. I had posted on all kinds of things on facebook saying I was looking for a girlfriend. To some old fashioned people this seems like cheating and that fine you have your own opinion, but to me it helps me deal with my hubs being gone even it I'm not sleeping with her for goodness sake its 2010.For she is my shoulder to lean on when my hubs is gone or when I need to just chill. And your right we might decide to have sex. But that is our own business and nobody elses. I have not done anything with a woman in a long time lets just say years. But if I do that is my choice.. not for other army wives to run their mouth about. I can promise you my hubs knows about me and what I'm "doing". He agrees with me completely or I wouldn't even be posting it. I don't know who started it and frankly I don't give a shit. I just want my readers to know what happens when troops deploy rumors fly. There is also another subject to this blog for today. I know someone that is struggling with somethings and I'm putting this out their not to piss them off but to show the world deployed soldiers are not so innocent. All you ever hear about is wives cheating when troops deploy. Well this time the shoe is on the other foot.I was told that a certain someone was having phone sex or rather cyber sex with all kinds of girls. I mean exes and unknown people. Not sure how many or for what reason but this person happened to bring up a very good point....why go somewhere else to get something you could be getting at home. This person is a husband and from what I understand the wife is a stay at home mom with one kid and had plenty of time to talk to her hubby.But he chooses to ignore her and have this cyber sex with other people. I wanna know your thoughts my readers. Cause I could tell you if it was me I would be on a plane overseas and be kicking some ass. This is a very old thought so before you freak out and start trying to figure out who it is .Its private and it shall stay that way. I just wanted to bring up that those soldiers every one thinks are angels don't seem to be now that this was brought to the surface. I posted this because like most things that happen during a deployment are never known. I'm sick and tired of "The Wife" always being the bad guy. I'm a very outspoken and opinionated person and damn it if I'm wrong Ill tell ya I'm wrong. Readers I wanna know what things get on your nerves or that are just plain stupid with the army of just regular thoughts. Well my blog had come to an end. Peace , Love , and Happiness.
P.S. I understand that some wives don't wanna go to rank and go through all the drama. But if you feel alone about something and would like it mentioned on my blog. Send me an email and we can decide if you wanna put it out there. My blog will always remain private and open to anything.
